A very, very important question indeed.
Calculating the amount of alcohol you need at a wedding is a necessary part of wedding planning. It’s also kind of nerve-wracking. Our worst nightmares involve an empty bar.
Before writing this article, we had a look online to see what other sources recommended. We were a little shocked to read that the consensus across several websites was to factor 1 drink per-person, per-hour. Wha-at? Clearly these people have never been to a wedding with our mates. Or clearly, we never realised how much we fit into the binge-drinking epidemic that has apparently ravaged the millennial Australian youth. Either way, this sounded kind of risky and un-scientific to us. There had to be a better, more specific and data-driven way to get to the real numbers.
So we chatted to the experts – our team, a bunch of wedding planners and the folks at Dan Murphy’s Wedding and Events Services to figure out how much alcohol you’ll need for your wedding. We’ve got a bunch of rules to help you nail this.
There aren’t many weddings where people go easy on the alcohol. It’s free and people are in the mood to celebrate! It can be pretty scary how quickly it adds up, and reveals (sometimes concerning) insights into your friends’ and family’s drinking habits! The gist of it is…
Better yet, use our wedding alcohol calculator. It’ll do the same thing but with scary accuracy, based data and instantly - yay!
It’s not a wine or beer tasting. People tend to stick to what they know, so you don’t need to offer a huge choice.
If you’re planning on serving cocktails or mixed drinks, you will need plenty of bags of ice to serve these up with. Make sure your venue has this covered, or allocate the job to someone responsible if you’re getting hitched at a BYO property.
And while we’re talking cocktails, consider avoiding a post-speech/dinner energy slump and fire up the dancefloor with espresso martini shots! Get your local barista mate to make up a few litres of espresso, chill it and shake it up with some vodka for some extra twinkle in your toes.
Planning a day/arvo wedding in summer or somewhere hot? The boys will suck back the beers like there’s no tomorrow so order more than you think. Have a water station handy, and make sure it’s kept topped up and looking fresh – a hydrated guest is a happy guest (especially the next day).
If it’s going to be cooler, know that the consumption of red wines will be higher. Consider leaning into the vibe and warming guests up with a mulled wine option too, or having bottles of port or muscat on tables for guests to warm themselves up with.
It’s hard enough being pregnant, breastfeeding, or the designated driver at a wedding, let alone being forced to drink lemon water all night. Have a few fancy options such as little Capi bottles or a non-alcoholic fruit punch to help them get into the party mood too. There’s a fantastic range of non-alc drinks (wines, beers, ready-to-drink cans) that can make non-drinkers feel included and special.
It’s not a ploy to get you to buy more than you need – but it really is always better to have a little too much than too little. Those bottles of wine and cases of beer are excellent bargaining tools for next-day helpers and general gestures of thanks.
Plus, if you purchase from Dan Murphy’s Wedding and Events team, you can return unopened cases for a refund
... that we built you the best calculator you'll find online to help?
Find The Wedshed Wedding Alcohol Calculator right here - and cheers to you.
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